Why are guys SO brutal!!!
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| Thu, 12-01-2005 - 9:10pm |
Ugh. If I posted a list of guys that have ever lied to me... I think it would be 8 pages long...
Have a problem - got involved with my NEIGHBOUR in my condo... 2 DOORS down. Now things have gone sour.
He described himself as single and available. However, i find out now that he is not...and we were seeing eachother for a month and a bit. I didn't even find out from him - I found out from his friend that I know. I feel so betrayed and now I have to risk running into him (and even worse, his girlfriend) in my hallway, elevator, lobby...
He just stopped talking to me last weekend and totally blew me off on msn... so I did my own investigating through his friends and found out this piece of info. Gosh.. Why do guys have no balls? Just be honest!
Now it is all awkward - and the worst is... I have my COMPANY XMAS PARTY on Saturday and he was supposed to come. Now I get to go "stag". Embarassing. Not that I'm not used to it, but I have been single for so long that I was so excited to finally have someone to bring...and now that is gone.
Venting done.... lesson learned.
any positive thoughts welcomed :)
best,
Kaye

Damn girl shake it off....he's so not even close to worth it. Go to the holiday party with your head held high and know you aren't stuck with a loser who is plotting a way to get away from you to get back to his girlfriend without her finding out about you.
Ugh...damn...what a jerkoff.
Rubyshoes
Please, don't pay any attention to the poster who said that going to your office party alone is bad form.
The annual office party is about WORK. Going alone, IMO, is preferable to bringing someone you barely know, just to have a date. Go, talk to your boss(es) and other higher ups you wouldn't necessarily have a chance to talk to on a day to day basis, so they have a chance to learn a little more about you (and you a little more about them) then call it a night.
As for the other, I'm sorry you have to go through this. I know you know in your heart that not ALL men are like this, but there sure seem to be a lot of dishonest jerks out there! FWIW, I've found that it takes at least a couple months of dating for the real person to start to come out, so take your time and get to know the guy well before you get too involved, either emotionally or physically.
Sheri