we both like him but he likes me!
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| Mon, 12-05-2005 - 12:23am |
Ok, so I m in college and there s a few cute boys at school. one day my friend and i saw this one guy and wow! our jaws dropped. i told her i was gonna ask him out next time we saw him. then the next week she said she he was so hot etc etc and i told her to go for it and she said no, so i said ok then i will and she said " i m not going to but i don t want you to either" i thought that was crazy.
i saw him last week at lunch and asked to sit with him, we talked for 3 hrs. then my friends came up, ( incl the one) and they all met him they think he s great etc etc. an hr later she was gushing about him and saying i had to help her get him.
now it s week later and he s since given me his #, walked me to class and huddled thru 20 ppl on the bus to stand next to me. i love my friend but i like this guy too and i know she ll never talk to him on her own without my help. also, she s still hung up on her x and sees him 3-4 x a week. i ve seen how she treats her bfs and it s not nice. i broke up with my bf who i treated like gold and never appreciated it and now that theres this sweet mature man who likes me, i want to take a chance cos i think i deserve it.
i invited him to come to a nite of drinking with my friends in a few wks after exams and he s excited but i want time with him alone.... am i a horrible friend for wanting to be with him, or at least wnating to go for coffee with him and just him? should i tell her if i do go? im confused!
i left a msg on his phone today letting him know the date of drinking changed cos of exams and when he calls back im wondering if i should mention hanging out before then or what. my friend says if i show an intrest in him she ll back down but i know she just said it so i d say the same and she d be able to go for him. i told her to do it if she wants but i wont stop being myself around him and cant help if he likes. she " gave me permission" to be his " friend".
she s 20 and has had one bf for 4 yrs.she says if you go on one date with a boy you re his gf. i know that this guy would NEVER go by that and they d never work even if they did go out. he s the 1st boy i ve liked in a year. i don t wanna waste this. help!

This sounds really immature, but you "called him" first when you said you were going to ask him out.