What I love about men

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Registered: 11-01-2005
What I love about men
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Mon, 12-12-2005 - 5:53pm

In the interest of being thankful this holiday season, and in spite of our collective dating woes, I thought it might be nice to show a little appreciation for the men in our lives (whether they be boyfriends, brothers, fathers, sons, friends, etc.) I personally don't view men as adversaries or enemies. I love 'em and wouldn't want to live in a world without 'em.

So, I'll start the list of "What I Love About Men" and you all can add to it as you like...
(Hoping this list stays positive, as it is intended)

* They get excited about their big boy toys - their new motorcycles, skis, plasma-screen TV, surround sound system...

* After a big argument with a good guy friend, men are truly able to forgive and forget and then go out for a beer

* Their strength, both physical and emotional

* The way they smell after they shave (mmmm...)

* Warm hands and feet all the time

* They can make the most amazing sound effects for any occasion

* Of course, they can open those impossible-to-crack jars in the kitchen and I love the look of pride they get after they've helped out a "damsel in distress" (although, I probably could have opened the jar myself - that look is too priceless to pass up)

* They know all sorts of insignificant details about their passion in life -- every baseball stat known to humanity, the exact torque on a power tool, every lyric to every U2 song...

* Nothing beats a bear hug from a man when you're blue

* I love that they love sex - makes life so much more enjoyable

* They love just as deeply as we do

So, to all the men in my life - "thank you." I have an amazing dad, two great brothers-in-law, three wonderful little nephews, and countless good guy friends. I also thank all my exes for everything they have taught me and for all those moments of love and passion. I appreciate the color they have added to my personal story. :)

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Registered: 09-27-2004
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 8:16pm

I would have to say that I love the same sorts of things about men that you do and these extra added ones :-).

I love that when you are having a bad day or need assistance with your car or home they come to your rescue by giving you a big hug or by fixing the problem.

I love it when they get all nervous and shy when they want to kiss you for the first time or ask for your number or ask you out on a date.

I like how when I'm having an overly emotional episode they are able to put things into perspective for me and give me good advice.

I like when they offer to carry the groceries, heavy bags or open doors for you.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 9:39pm

I love how they can smell good, even if they stink.


I love how a guy can make me feel small next to him.

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Registered: 09-01-2005
Tue, 12-13-2005 - 9:41am

Some of these are repeats, but anyway...

I love how they'll put their hand on the small of your back when walking into a room.

I love when they'll hold out their hand for me to take when I'm stepping up a curb or walking on ice (as if I'm not experienced with these things).

I love their strength.

I love watching them work (whether it's debugging the computer or mowing the lawn, I'm just facinated).

I love that they can wear hats almost anywhere.

And I could probably go on and on...