Ex's remark to me over xmas...
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| Tue, 01-03-2006 - 4:02pm |
ok...so here it is...xmas and i get to go pick up my kids for the week. oh yes, my Ex hubby has custody of them because i was stupid enough to end up choosing a guy over them for love instead of listening to my kids when they said to me they didnt like him. don't hit me yet..let me finish...i left that man after i came to my senses and am now rebuilding nearly two lost years with my children. I admit i did wrong and i am willing to accept the blame and move on with my present life such as it stands.
Everything is going great..my kids love me to pieces as i love them.
ok back to the ex's remark to me.
Upon my arrival to his house i greet him and he greets me back with " merry christmas, I was gonna get you a gift but i didnt know what to get for you so i didnt get ya anything, sorry. By the way, your doing a great job with your relationship with the kids.I am pleased." I was floored with shock when i looked at him and all i could say was ..."i never even gave it a thought to get you anything so don't worry your butt off about it. and thanks.". and the issue was dropped.
I happen to be confused because we have been divorced since 1997, he got remarried and divorced a second time, and is in another live-in relationship with a woman who has been a great step-mom to my kids(more than i could say about my X's second wife). After we tried a reconciliation in 1998 to 1999 I could not see the relationship working out so we parted ways in 1999 he got remarried in 2002 and divorced in 2004. Since our divorce(minus our reconciling period) we have never exchanged gifts on any holiday. Now i stated that he wanted to get me something but didn't since he had no idea what i needed or wanted. Was he just being cordial? Does he have a motive to that madness? Does that statement he said to me seem like he still has feelings for me or is he just playing with my head?
ARGH!!!, MEN!!!. IF you are a female reading this and have a male companion...let them read this so i can get some male feedback on this.
ALL i can say and pray is i sure hope he doesnt want me back because i am 100 percent positive i do not want him back.
I love my single life and just want to play the field.

Don't read anything more into it than what he said.
point taken shywon. logically i do agree. rofl oh star trekkies i sound like that dude on original series. help me peas.
and to think JIM has taken an earthly name now of DANNY CRANE.
ROFLMAOPMP
i am
imnotethere. Stop that. stop what. that. this. no, imnothere.