Do you ever just get bored waiting?
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Do you ever just get bored waiting?
| Wed, 01-11-2006 - 11:09pm |
Okay...you flirt and flirt, you get flirted with...it's been awhile, you know he's interested....and you wait....and you wait...and you wait.
At what point do you just give up on a guy actually making a move when you've made it clear you're interested?

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Call it jaded but I don't think I ever get my hopes up in the first place anymore. I assume the opposite until I hear otherwise.
Do you have a particular example or just wondering?
I've found myself in those situations more times than I care to admit and when I see he's not going to ask me out, I get bored and move on. Chances are he wasn't as interested as I would have liked him to be in the first place and then I'm usually lucky or unlucky enough, however you want to look at it, to spot him somewhere with his girlfriend which answers all my questions and helps me move on faster.
I'm kind of in that situation right now...though it hasn't been all that long, and I'm not entirely sure he's interested (but I think he is) and he definitely knows I'm interested.
I find myself going back to read excerpts in that one.
Another particular good book is "What smart women know". This book is very good. I was on the bus reading it and someone happened to be reaing over my shoulder and said, "Ms. Where can I find that book? I'm sorry I was reading over your shoulder but it looks really good".
It helped me out as well.
Not exactly...it's just a trend I notice with myself that I get bored really quickly, but then I read these posts from women who have been "talking to" or hanging out with a guy for months and she's still holding on.
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