Well that's that...
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| Mon, 08-14-2006 - 11:22pm |
I saw the boy online tonight so I said hello, see how he was, etc., and decided to nip this thing in the bud once and for all and get a straight answer out of him as to what was going on (even though I already knew, I'm the type of person that needs closure with things)....so I said "maybe when things calm down for you we can get together if you'd like..."
His response: "Possibly...I did start dating someone a little more seriously just to give you a heads up..."
Then I get the "you're fun to hang out with" line. Yeah, I'm the fun/cool chick which is supposed to be a good thing, but for me, that always seems to be my downfall. I can't even be too upset about this, I knew deep down I wouldn't be seeing him again, but it still hurts and I'm angry because he didn't have the balls to say it to me himself, I had to almost force it out of him.
He is deleted from my IM/cell/e-mail and life. I wished him good luck with the new girl and said I had fun while it lasted, so at least I can walk away feeling like the bigger person here....it still hurts though.



I'm sorry. I know it's better to know, but still, it's not fun.
Sheri
I know it hurts, but you'll be okay (I know you know that).
Yeah, and guys are always complaining how they want the "fun, cool chick" but when we are right in their faces, they want something else.
Oh well, I pretty much knew I wouldn't be seeing him again, and I really wanted to blast him for not even calling me after we messed around, but that just proves to me that I should have stuck to my rule of no sex until I'm in a committed relationship. I've learned my lesson for next time though. When will these guys just grow up? OH well.
Awww, I'm sorry, Rebecca. Do your pouting, then take a deep breath and say out loud 'oh well'.
Dust yourself off and keep on strutting. That's what I do.
Ok, sometimes.
But then I'm not sorry. You're better off. Don't feel bad. You did the right thing. You needed closure and you got it. You'll meet someone new and he'll be yesterday's news. Hold your chin up and just continue being you.
Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for their support. I'm feeling better then I was when I originally posted the other night, and I just keep reminding myself he didn't put forth that much of an effort (in all areas, if you know what I mean....) in the beginning, and IMO, that's when you should be putting forth the biggest effort! And I'm not looking for someone to hang out with, I'm looking for someone to date!
Yep, just need to keep telling myself this everyday and I'll be good ;)