Did I do the right thing or is it chessy

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Did I do the right thing or is it chessy
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Sat, 09-23-2006 - 10:42pm

Ok, so I have been friends with this guy, josh since I was 16. (Im now 22) Throughout the years I have falling for him... did i tell him, NO! When I was about 19 we kissed for the first time and it was amazing for me. I wanted it but I was afraid that it was going to ruin a GREAT friendship, so I ran. I couldnt run for long.. it wasnt long until we were making-out every chance we got. Until I moved away and lost all touch with him.

I saw him about a year ago but I was engaged and he was in a relationship. Well, about a month ago I started thinking about him and I still havent been able to stop! I dont have a phone number but I did find his address the other day. So I sent him a card letting him know that I was thinking about him and gave him my new numbers. I am still crazy about him. I dream about him and all these memories are stuck in my mind like they happened yesterday! Was it stupid to have sent a card... should I have just let it go?

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Registered: 06-24-2005
Sun, 09-24-2006 - 8:53pm

No I don't think that was cheesy! Keep us updated!

Are you no longer engaged?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2005
Sun, 09-24-2006 - 11:11pm
NO WAY I AM NOW LONGER ENGAGED! WE DIDNT NEED TO BE TOGETHER. HE ISNT ALL WITH US IF U KNOW WHAT I MEAN. HE IS REALLY WEIRD AND SO IT WOULD HAVE ENDED IN A DIVORCE SO I SAVED US SOME MONEY!!!!! I HAVENT HEARD NE THING FROM JOSH YET BUT I MAILED IT FRIDAY AND ITS ONLY SUNDAY SO NE DAY NOW.... GOSH, I HOPE HE CALLS ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Registered: 06-24-2005
Mon, 09-25-2006 - 7:12am
I'll cross my fingers for you!
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Registered: 12-27-2004
Mon, 09-25-2006 - 9:40am
Me too.
And to the o.p., no, I do not think it was cheesy to give him your number.
But if you don't hear from him, let it go. Means he has other issues he's dealing with that have nothing to do with you.
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Registered: 04-25-2005
Tue, 09-26-2006 - 10:36pm
HE CALLED ME LAST NIGHT! WE TALKED FOR 3 HOURS!!! IT WAS AMAZING! HE IS JUST WAY TOO DAMN HOT! THERE IS A NEW PROBLEM THOUGH. NOT REALLY A PROBLEM BUT A CONCERN. HE TOLD ME HIS EX IS EXPECTING WHAT SHE SAYS TO BE HIS CHILD. THEY WERE SPLIT FOR A MONTH BEFORE SHE SAYS SHE GOT PREGNANT. I CANT LET THAT HANG OVER HIS HEAD CAN I? I SHOULD LOVE HIM LIKE I ALWAYS HAVE HUH! MAN O MAN! HES JUST SO AMAZING. SATURDAY NIGHT WE ARE GOING TO A JEFF BATES CONCERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YEA
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Registered: 09-27-2006
Wed, 09-27-2006 - 4:13pm
Do what is in your heart. You need to let someone know how you feel. Who knows - they may feel the same way and be unsure about telling you.
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Registered: 09-28-2006
Thu, 09-28-2006 - 6:09pm
Thats nice that you have gotten back together as friends and that you are happy. I think you should also follow your heart but also think about the child he is expecting. Do what is right.
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Registered: 09-05-2006
Sat, 09-30-2006 - 12:46am

I'm so happy you heard from him. Obviously the card was just the ticket. The child needn't prove to be a major

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