he said yes to a second!!!
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| Sat, 10-21-2006 - 12:51pm |
I went out with a guy, with two other friends to watch the film click. it went really well and he held my hand when I got sad and let me rest my head on his shoulder when I was shattered. I've been working up the courage to ask him out again, but just the two of this time, which was really scary. But I did, and he said YES!!!! made my day, and now I have his number, but I am also freaking out, because, I dont know what to say when I call, what if we have nothing to talk about. (and the movie we were going to see is not actually in the right cinema, is it to forward for him to come to my house, I just want to have time to talk one on one, I just get so nervous.
(blushing as I wrote that)
any thoughts or help would be appreciated, I dont want to gibber down the phone and look like a fool?!?!
xxx thankq

Lislinkster,
It's nice to have that nervous feeling. I haven't felt that for a long time about a guy. In Australia, if you're going on a date with a man, there would be an expectation that he would pick you up but I'm not sure what it is like in America. If you have an existing friendship and he doesn't live very far away from you, perhaps it would be nice if he offered? In terms of the phone call, generally I think most guys use the phone for a purpose so keep the conversation light, easy, brief and to the point. You'll have time to have an indepth conversation with him when you go out with him. You can speak about things that interest him like his career, sports, his hobbies etc. If you're compatible, the conversation should flow easily. There is nothing to be nervous about and everything to be excited about. Make sure you post an update for us all!
Feisty