Interested?

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Interested?
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Thu, 01-04-2007 - 4:05am
I am inquisitive about women? I workout at a gym and see the same people most of the time. I send a warm friendly smile at some attractive women that i walk by practically everyday. Some don't even look at me and some do? Does this mean that the ones that don't look at me aren't interested or doesn't think i am a attractive? or does this mean they are married? or happily in a relationship? If Brad Pitt walked by you and smiled in the street would you smile back?
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Registered: 12-27-2004
In reply to: asian2c
Thu, 01-04-2007 - 7:59am
I smile back if someone smiles at me.
I should add, though it depends on a few things. If he looks creepy, I pretend I don't see him. Other times, it would depend on my mood. Sometimes if I feel crappy and don't want to be bothered, I'll ignore too. I know not good but that's how I am.
But generally, if I like the guy, I usually smile back.
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Registered: 06-24-2005
In reply to: asian2c
Thu, 01-04-2007 - 11:56am
I would not smile at Mr. Pitt if he smiled at me...probably because I avoid eye contact with cute guys. LOL...counterproductive I know. If I see someone smiling at me I feel very 'on the spot'..I would rather not see him looking at me and just be approached, hehe. Then I can't do anything but talk to him. I don't think I'm typically though! :)
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Registered: 05-14-1999
In reply to: asian2c
Thu, 01-04-2007 - 9:22pm
The last few gym memberships I had, were women only facilities. I didn't want to be around men while I sweat buckets and couldn't control my wobbly bits on the treadmill. These seemingly unfriendly girls may feel the same way or, maybe they think you're "that" guy. The guy at the gym who hits on ALL the women, even if you are not. Of course, they could be attached or focused on the task at hand. If you're truly interested in someone, you should go up and initiate a conversation.