Should I contact him??
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| Thu, 01-04-2007 - 12:43pm |
Hi all,
I would love some opinions on this one. I met this guy who seems to be a great catch. The issue however is that I hooked up with him while drunk (we just madeout a little nothing too crazy) this passed weekend and I am not sure if he is actually interested. I gave him my number but he hasn't called me yet. He seemed like he could be interested in more but since he hasn't called me I am not too sure. He gave me his card and I wonder if I should contact him. In hindsight, I feel like I was acting kind of stupid and said some dumb things while I was drunk...so I am a little embarrased about it which makes me not want to call or email him. But if he is at all interested I would like to see him again and show him that I am not a total fool!!
I met him last Saturday night so its been about a week. Should I wait longer or should I just let it go?
I know its probaly better if he calls me but it seems like the guys that are calling me and seem interested I don't really like. So maybe if I make the effort it could be someone worth it?
Any advice here??

Thanks so much to all of you for the advice. I think you are right, if he is worth it and a nice guy he will probaly respond.
I'll you know if I ever hear from him:)
Ok, i sent an email. I think it was good...we'll see what happens!!
Thanks for the advice!
okay...update.
So I emailed him and he ended up calling me late night Friday...he was drunk and I had just come home from the bar myself. He came over with a friend and we hung out and played cards and he stayed over (his friend left) and we made out again (nothing crazy). It was fun but he seems more immature then I remember from the first time we met. So I haven't contacted him since Saturday morning when he left. He asked if he would see me again soon and I said sure. But no word from him...again. Not even an email this week to just say hi. I just feel like he doesn't want to make the effort...I was hoping I had met someone good but no dice:(