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Kissing problems
| Mon, 01-08-2007 - 4:11pm |
Hey everyone, I have a question.
I'm 18 and have met a great guy. I never had mch of a dating life before, but now it's really picking up. With past guys, however, I've never enjoyed kissing-I'd try to do what they did, but I didn't get any sensations, no matter how much I liked the guy (I've kissed 3 guys; the first was the worst, really, the second I simply adorded the guy, and third I had a crush on for a long time..he's a pretty popular and experienced guy, and I felt a little more when I kissed him then the other guys. I know he was "doing it right", but I didn't feel what everyone talks about). Kissing wasn't thrilling or made me feel good or anything; I felt nothing. Same goes for when he ("he" goes for all three guys; and I am very striaght, so it's not that) would kiss my neck. Is something wrong with me?
Well, I really like this new guy and I want to be able to kiss him and actually feel the great feelings everyone talks about when they kiss. We've gone on two dates so far and haven't kissed, so I'm thrilled to get the chance to ask for some advice before we do. Can someone please help me? I think I'm not doing it right, but I don't know. There's the whole tilt your head the other way thing, I get that, but actually doing it?-not so much.
I'm 18 and have met a great guy. I never had mch of a dating life before, but now it's really picking up. With past guys, however, I've never enjoyed kissing-I'd try to do what they did, but I didn't get any sensations, no matter how much I liked the guy (I've kissed 3 guys; the first was the worst, really, the second I simply adorded the guy, and third I had a crush on for a long time..he's a pretty popular and experienced guy, and I felt a little more when I kissed him then the other guys. I know he was "doing it right", but I didn't feel what everyone talks about). Kissing wasn't thrilling or made me feel good or anything; I felt nothing. Same goes for when he ("he" goes for all three guys; and I am very striaght, so it's not that) would kiss my neck. Is something wrong with me?
Well, I really like this new guy and I want to be able to kiss him and actually feel the great feelings everyone talks about when they kiss. We've gone on two dates so far and haven't kissed, so I'm thrilled to get the chance to ask for some advice before we do. Can someone please help me? I think I'm not doing it right, but I don't know. There's the whole tilt your head the other way thing, I get that, but actually doing it?-not so much.

Smile,
Deirdre
I agree - when I kiss my new guy, it turns me on in ways that before I never knew were possible.