shud i or shud i not ?

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Registered: 01-12-2007
shud i or shud i not ?
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Fri, 01-12-2007 - 11:35pm

Hey everyone...

i met this guy at skool n i had a real bad crush on him ever since... i neva made it obvious since he didnt seem interested.... we were together in a class (biology) where we talked all the time n did no work, at all!! Everybody in skool thought we were going out n a lota rumors had been out too! He had plans of goin to US for further education and so he went away.... after he left i thought we'd neva see each other again n i was kool with it..!!

One day, a very close frnd of mine called me n said that he had added her on his msn n was askin for my email address... i was SHOCKED but happy n xcited... we din talk at all in the beg. but then he msged n told me that he was cumin back for vacation n wanted to c me.... he emailed me too...

I got ova him again after seeing him for 2 hrz on a sunday, outside library!! but then we started talkin on msn all the time.... all most everyday, it was as if i cudn't do nythin without talkin to him... i think it was the same with him... he had asked for my picture n fone number ... he also called n talked for an hr... i was surprised but happy at the fact that my crush likes me too...

But after sumtime... he started to ignore me n not reply to my msgz.. he told me he was cumin back again for Christmas holidays; but he neva mentioned the meeting up part... i thought he'd say it once he was here... but he left without seeing me... n called me from US to tell me that he likes me but does not want to get into nythin serious... cuz it juz wudn't last..( he had been wid sum1 n broke up cuz it got xtremely serious) i told him that i liked him too (ALOT) but surprisingly i wasun sad at the whole situation... may b i wanted it this way, since i dun think am ready for a bf thing now either...( i hav neva been with ny1)

He said we cud b normal again n i was ok with it too.. but he dosun reply to ny of my msgs online... he sounded amazingly serious on fone that day ( we talked for an hr n half) but now he'z ignoring me again... i cant seem to get ova him... i need him badly but dun wish to get into serious relationship... i knw if i push him he will say yes... but am lost myself....

suggestions???

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sat, 01-13-2007 - 11:47am

When you invest so much time and energy into one person before you have anything solid, that's what happens.

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Sat, 01-13-2007 - 9:33pm

>I would like to suggest that if you post in a traditional style, with traditional spelling (I'm sure you can do that), your post will be much easier to read and will probably get more responses. <

I'm glad SOMEone said it. That's the reason I didn't even bother to finish reading the post.