Ugh..
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| Wed, 01-17-2007 - 2:51pm |
Hey guys, just need a little venting...
I had a few dates with a guy last summer, and then he started going out with this other girl. She cheated on him multiple times, but he only just found out about it 2 weeks ago and they broke up. He came over to my house last Friday and we hung out. He wanted me to go up to his place the next day but I had previously made plans so he said he would call me this weekend so we can do something.
But sure enough, I hear today that he came down and spent the night with her last night. Should've known to run away like there's no tomorrow when he contacted me. But no, I guess there are still tiny pieces of my heart that can take some bashing. I feel like total **** today, but I guess I've put myself in that situation - Once again.
I'm so sick of emotionally not ready guys, i could scream!
Ugh

Although this guy was a creep hang in there someday you will find a guy who is emotinally ready and wants it all from you then you can forget about this pig LOL
HUGS
Oh, I'm sorry that happened. Those of us with trusting hearts (I'm one) are often disappointed by people who are not above board.
Don't beat yourself up. You're human and you took a chance on someone. Just learn from this and move on.
Big hugs to you.
AJ, enjoying life with C.
Look at it this way, at least you didn't break your plans to go out with him that next day! Could you imagine? Having gone over to his place, having a more fabulous time than the day before and THEN finding out about his reunion with the ex?
Hang in there!
I am not sure if this will help at all, but there are very few woman who haven't done something very similiar. You should be proud of yourself for not cancelling your plans to be with - I probably wouldn't have been as smart!!
Glad you found out sooner rather than later so that you didn't get in any deeper, that just makes the situation worse!!
Hang in there!