Should I grow some balls?

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Registered: 05-08-2006
Should I grow some balls?
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Fri, 02-02-2007 - 3:12pm

This guy that I dated before and I have been hanging out again here lately and he is usually the one to contact me and ask me out, etc...

I am right now considering calling him after work to see if he wants to get together tonight and hang out at a local bar? I know I'll feel like a fool if I do this and he turns me down though.

What do all of you suggest?

~Amber

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Registered: 05-14-1999
Fri, 02-02-2007 - 3:19pm
You never know unless you try ; ) I don't enjoy getting shot down either, but some situations call for one to take the bull by the horns.
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Registered: 07-28-2006
Fri, 02-02-2007 - 3:32pm
Why not? He's a friend of yours isn't he? I see no harm.


Edited 2/2/2007 3:32 pm ET by ivil_mami25
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Registered: 11-01-2005
Fri, 02-02-2007 - 4:12pm

If you two are dating and it's clear you're dating, I say go for it.

If you're 'hanging out' and it's not clear you're dating, I'd wait for him to make the moves at this point. I know that sounds old fashioned, but I just think it shows you that he's genuinely interested and willing to make the effort.

AJ, enjoying life with C.