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| Sat, 02-24-2007 - 10:23am |
helloo guys. i dont know what to do!!!
option a) meet up with guy who like, not usual type, quite attracted to, would like to get to know better, good to talk to, have a lot in common but complications concerning history with friend.
option b) persue a guy who i know is interested, v attracted to, dont know well at all, enjoy just flirting, bit nervous about taking further.
option c) do neither, carry on as usual with guy been seeing and im comfortable but bored with, let other two down.
I know its hard to comment because you dont know details but in general what sounds like the best option to you??!!!

Are you exclusive with the last guy?
Whoo Hoo! I agree with the last poster...just play it "safe". I am dating again and suddenly I have 4 women who want to date me, or get to know me better. One that I am very Intensely attracted to(not just physically either) and sh has already asked me if I am interested in looking further(for an exclusive girlfriend) I said "maybe, I am not sure yet". I don't like to play games, ya know. I am too old for that . 47 and Do want a mate....but I just don't want to Lose myself and forget my Own personal goals ?
How about you ?
designergrl47
"Thoughts are things! Think Good ones!"
I always enjoy the first part of relationships, getting to know guys, teasing and flirting but maybe a little to much. I love my personal space and time, have a fear of commitment and love to 'play' with guys! But at the same time of course would love to have a special connection with someone special. I am in conflict with myself!! Aaaaa! Its like i dont want to give up to much of myself, even though i know deep down nothing is set in cement, still getting serious always scares me. o well.
xxxxxx
Hi,
Wouldnt touch a. if it involves possibly hurting a friend. I mean do you watch the hills? he whole jen and brody/heidi/spenser business just kills me.
I would not settle for C. screw that. I would go with B and see how it turns out. If it doesn't work out then you seem like the type that doesn't have trouble finding a guy!
Don't stop until you find mr. right--for you that is.
Good luck!
Hey,
Well this is most def a tough one. I mean its hard not to pursue the guy you feel most intrigued by. I mean do you think your friend would be hurt by this? What is the history? Are you really good friends and does she have someone new and is she totally over it? Because if not it causes all kinds of problems! For not just you and your friend but then mututal friends as well...its like having to pick sides.
Actually one of my best friends had one of our other friends do that to her and it was years ago and it still haunts us today. Becuase the new gf (still with my friends ex) just moved to our city. I haven't told my best friend because i don't want to upset her.
So definitely find out with your friend if it would at all bother her...
Good luck!