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Grrrr...MEN!
| Sun, 08-12-2007 - 10:38am |
So I got up this morning and did the first thing I always do on the weekends- I checked my email.
| Sun, 08-12-2007 - 10:38am |
So I got up this morning and did the first thing I always do on the weekends- I checked my email.
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Please dont take this the wrong way, but maybe it's better if you DONT respond to him. If he has this big of an effect on your heart and your life...it's better to just let things lie where they are.
There's no real reason to keep re-opening the past and all those old feelings and emotions. He screwed up...he let go of an amazing woman. If he now has regrets, well that's his problem. He should have thought long and hard about what he was doing, before he put you through all the heartache. Frankly, it's none of his business what you're doing or who you're with now.
He made his bed...now he has to live with what he's done. Not you having to keep going through the endless BS, everytime he decides to get a wild hair up his butt and contacts you out of the blue! Only then to disappear again out of your life...and you're left wondering "What did I do this time!?!"
Ok...I'll get off my soapbox now....just thought I would put my 2 cents in!
I just have to respond.
Edited 8/12/2007 12:16 pm ET by crabulous
I still would have responded tomorrow.
Guilty as charged. Yes, I dated Mike for alittle over two years. And I fell hard for him. I was so in love with Mike. And I did every thing under the moon and the sun to try to make our relationship work.
But when you find out he's screwing around with another girl (now mind you he'e 36 and she's 22), a co-worker(and she was married at the time)of his...there's not much you can really do. After dating him for a year and then living together for another year...he flat out tells you, that he never wants to get married and he never wants to have children. That's a hard blow to take. And he tells you he still cares about me, but doesn't love me anymore! NOW WHAT IN THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN EXCATLY!!!!! Because I'd love to know!
But then not even a month after we split...she's then living with him...and a long story short...their daughter was born in March of this year, and their planning their wedding for next year. Tell me that's not enought to just ripped my heart right out of my chest!
I was crushed! In more ways then I can ever fully express. And it was HARD getting over Mike. And there are times, when I'll see something or hear a song on the radio..and it'll take me back to when we were together. Or, it'll bring back a memeory I had tucked away inside my heart. Oh yes, I know excatly how you feel.
There's one song I cant listen to, without it bringing tears to my eyes. Because it was "our" song. And if I hear it on the radio...I'll change the station. It's that painful. Incase your wondering what song it is...it's by Kenny Chesney; "You Had Me From Hello". Even now I can hear the song playing in my head.
So yes...more then you realize I understand how hard it is to let go of someone you love that deeply. They have a way of embedding themselves into your soul...and you just cant get them out.
And even though I've closed that chapter of my life and I've since moved on and dated other guys. Mike is the one, I'll never completely get over. He's more then likely the one man I will love for the rest of my life.
If that's how you feel about this ex of yours....then yes, I completely understand the situation you're in.
I had a Mike, too!
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