Men are frustrating!
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| Sun, 08-12-2007 - 2:35pm |
I know I'm not the only woman to think this but seriously, they can drive me crazy.
I've been dating a guy for like a month or so, we go out once or twice a week and have a great time. I'm moving pretty slow with this one so that I don't get myself hurt, plus I'm more interested in having fun than getting serious at this point. He of course, runs hot and cold. We'll be out having great conversation and he'll mention me meeting his parents, going away together, etc etc (yeah, a little soon I agree) and then we'll make casual plans to do something in a couple days and I'll tell him to just call me to set up details and I either a) won't hear from him at all or b) he'll call later, like DURING dinner. Sometimes there's a good excuse, other times not.
I'm not sitting around waiting for his call or anything but if we're talking about doing something and you say you'll call, then CALL! My time is valuable and I could be making other plans but because I'm not rude, I assume he'll come through so I keep my calendar open on nights we've talked about doing stuff. So while I've come to the conclusion that this guy is just a good time, the back and forth is annoying. Is this typical? It happened with the last guy I dated too, but has never happened before! Ugh...this is why I'm much happier being completely single and not dating!

If you don't have firm plans with someone, you're not rude for making other plans.
I disagree that casual plans should be ignored and that it's okay to make others without a firm time and place.