Tired of Being Single

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2006
Tired of Being Single
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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 2:04am

Ok, I am 21 and have put friends and my career first for a long time and still am focusing on those things... I am a workaholic, though I am tired of being single. Every time I go out, even just to the grocery store, I get checked out by some guy, ya I love it, until it is a creep that does it. Though help with dating, what do I do? I don't want to be single anymore.

Thanks!
Pamela
www.LoveYourHomeBiz.com

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2006
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 1:40pm
Are you really 21 or was that a typo?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2006
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 1:45pm

Hi cml7721,

Why do you ask what my real age is?

Pamela
www.LoveYourHomeBiz.com

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2006
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 2:05pm
I just read your profile and it didn't seem to be of a 21 year old (in a good way)....you might have a picture, but I wasn't basing it on that, I can't see them at work. Plus I (my personal opinion) just don't think it's as big a deal to be single at 21 as it is to be single at an older age.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2006
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 2:07pm
Ahh...if that's the case, that's my bad, I'm a tad embarrassed and clearly out of the loop. :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2006
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 2:46pm

Hi Capegiradeau,

I am a little confused by your post. What are you talking about on spam and reporting me to the modes, please help me uderstand, did I miss something.

Thank you!
Pamela
www.LoveYourHomeBiz.com

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2006
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 3:22pm

Ok, I am sorry but I am really lost and am not to sure what you are talking about. Posting and reposting links for high visibility. Are you talking about my link under my name? I am posting about tops that interest me or things that I have questions on... I do not just post to post, sorry I don't have that much time to waste.

A little confused!
Pamela
www.LoveYourHomeBiz.com

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2007
Wed, 08-15-2007 - 9:51am
I just wanted to let the person know who somehow found my post offensive that there was nothing negative included. I'm surprised by how many people can be offended by friendly advice that is only meant to help them in the future. I personally would prefer that the offended party let me know what they found offensive about my post instead of rushing to judgement. My guess is that the offensive 'phrase' was my suggestion to leave links out which was only meant to help the poster. Of all the responses, I'm surprised that mine was the only to be deleted because it was found offensive - and I was responding to defend the OP.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2007
Wed, 08-15-2007 - 12:20pm

There was nothing offensive in your posts, except for the fact that they appeared to be solicitation for a commercial website. Why put that link with every message when it had no relevance ?

iVillage gets its revenue from advertising and is thus free for us. When people sneak in unpaid for 'commercials' , it loses money. I was only trying to help iVillage but guess what. Instead of being thanked for my looking out for them, I find my posts have been deleted ! Wow. What a disconnect between those in the boardroom and the "volunteer" moderators.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2006
Wed, 08-15-2007 - 2:25pm
I have reason to believe that's just her signature.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2003
Wed, 08-15-2007 - 4:04pm

Hi everyone,


Let me clarify some confusing issues for you, if you don't mind.