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friends no more?
| Sun, 08-19-2007 - 12:19am |
Hi. I have a question about "friends". I have a friend and recently I told her that I liked her. Well, she didn't take it the way I would have wanted. The person that convinced me to go ahead and tell her told me that she was in the same scenario with a guy and it worked out. Now, of course I'm a guy, so I understand totally the guy dating his "female friend" thing. Before I continue I should let you know that we both worked together and she recently quit. Although I didn't ask her directly, she just said she was having problems. I took her leaving as a sign that she doesn't want to be around me.? Is that right.? she tried to quit before and she had to come back, but at that time she told me where she was going to work and that I could come and see her if I wanted. I just thought she was being nice. But, I didn't ask where she was going, only if she was leaving. She told me of her own free will. Right before she left I asked her the name of the place again and her face got really red. So, I guess one question is, if you didn't like someone, would you still blush like that? Oh yeah, I tried to talk to someone else, that said that would talk to her for me (cause I was worried) mind you this person does talk to her and myself. I have yet to hear anything more about it. I'm assuming she didn't talk to her,. so um, was that a good idea? without saying too much more, is it really possible for a man a woman to still be friends after something like this? From my past experiences it has always ended the friendship, but thats not what I want.. any advice?

I don't think you can draw any conclusions based on what you've told us.