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| Thu, 09-20-2007 - 7:51am |
I just don't know what to do. Dating this guy for 2mo and he want's to spend the whole weekend with me. There are times when I would like to have a Sat or Sun by myself. I don't want to scare him of

I think at this point, you have already hurt him by leaving while he was sleeping. In all honesty, what did you really need to get done at midnight on Saturday?
In the beginning, it is hard to find a middle ground with still having time to yourself and spending time with a guy you really like. I felt the same way when I first started to date my ex. But if you really like the guy and not want to risk loosing him, you kind of have to surrender to letting yourself fall for him. To me, it sounds more like you are scared of letting yourself feel something for somebody, then finding enough time for yourself. But that is just my opinion.
Hawkeye,
Do I ever know what you're talking about! The same thing, similarly, happened to me while I was dating my most recent x-boyfriend. We were going out for a year, met July 2006, I broke up with him July 2007. He is a farmer. He told me from the very beginning that there will be times when we can't see each other often because of crops coming in etc. I told him, cool, no problem, that's when all my tomatoes come in anyway and I won't have a whole lot of time either cuz I'll be making all my salsa's and spaghetti sauces.
I also explained about the various fruit seasons etc. Long story short..... in the winter
Anne