Something must be wrong with me

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Registered: 09-23-2007
Something must be wrong with me
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Sun, 09-23-2007 - 8:28pm

Hi girls,


I'm new here :)

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Registered: 08-02-2007
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 8:39pm
>> Now I could care less if I saw him again. I feel like an awful, awful girl - my birthday is this week and he bought me a nice gift and made reservations to take me out. And here I am, debating breaking up with hiim because I'm not 'crazy over him'.



What's wrong with me?




You are bored, because you have nothing interesting to do. And you blame men for not relieving you of boredom.


Edited 9/23/2007 8:47 pm ET by capegirardeau
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Sun, 09-23-2007 - 8:43pm

haha, that response made me break out in laughter.


You couldn't be more right.

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Registered: 08-02-2007
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 8:49pm
Well you didn't have to tell me that :) But, thank you. I usually am very perceptive.
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Sun, 09-23-2007 - 8:54pm

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Registered: 09-23-2007
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 8:55pm

seriously, thanks.


any advice though?

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Sun, 09-23-2007 - 9:01pm

I think you just got over that honeymoon period where everything seems great and you're both on your best behavior. Now that you have spent more time with him, you may just be seeing that he's not the right one for you and he's not the perfect match you first thought he was. We don't always

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Registered: 09-23-2007
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 9:25pm
It just occurred to me that if I need to ask a message board if I should keep dating someone, then maybe I probably don't want to...
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Sun, 09-23-2007 - 10:21pm
or perhaps you just wanted to talk it out with people who have no stake in the situation?
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Sun, 09-23-2007 - 10:33pm

My experience is that most people who ask for advice already know what they want, they're just looking for validation.

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Registered: 09-23-2007
Mon, 10-01-2007 - 11:14am
I really think my ex-boyfriend has ruined me... I don't think I'm ever ever going to be able to open up and let anyone come in again.

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