can I get out of having sex to have sex?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2007
can I get out of having sex to have sex?
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Tue, 09-25-2007 - 5:30am
I started seeing this guy about 3 weeks ago. We met online and have been on 3 dates and text/talk everyday. The other night we had sex and let's just say there was much to be desired.
I am having my 25th birthday party in 2 weeks and invited him to come today. Tonight I got a msg from a guy I've always liked and he said we should get together, he heard about my party on facebook, etc.
Now I feel like I'm screwed because honestly I would rather spend time with him over this other guy.
I am moving out of town after my party and the guy I'm seeing knows we're not doing long distance so it's not like there's potential there... am I horrible?
My crush lives 40 mins out of town and basically would stay at my hotel with me if he came out here...
What do I do? I can't have the guy I'm dating at my party and see mr hotty there and not want to bring him to my hotel.
I usually don't do casual sex but I've only been with 2 men in my whole life and am beginning to realize that as long as my desires aren't hurting anyone I may as well fulfill them.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-04-2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 6:02am
Honey life is too short. I think you've got to tell the guy your seeing that you're sorry but its time to part ways. You even have the built in excuse of leaving town.
Good luck with mr hottie!
Anne