Younger guy.....
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Younger guy.....
| Sat, 09-29-2007 - 7:47pm |
Hello. Ok so Im back into the dating scene and I guess Im having some fun now until I meet the right guy. Well I met a guy a couple of weeks ago. The problem is that he is incredible young and I know that Im taking a big risk by speaking with him. Hes ONLY 22. I am 27 and I know thats horrible...I realize that he is probable not looking for a relationship which is fine because im playing the field for a lil until i find the RIGHT man. I know its not him but he is a nice guy and we hit it off right from the start. We went out to dinner, to the city, He took me out on his boat, I met his parents, I went to his house, we went out dancing..It was great...well until this week. All of a sudden the phone calls started to slow up...then 2 days ago he texts me and says "why am i the one always calling?" ok fine so i called him...he sounded completely normal. I asked if he wanted to get together yesterday. He said that he had a friends bday party but i could come out and meet him which is fine to me...I asked him to call and remind me..He said he would. Then we hung up and he promised he would call. He never did...I texted him friday afternoon "Whats up" and he never responded. I didnt hear from him..I still havent...I know that he has a busy schedule..school...work..(even on the weekends)..but come on..Im much older and I know how this works. I know he doesnt want anything serious but when u say your gonna call then call or even text ya know??!! Tell me that you would rather hang out with your friends..or even another girl...Do you think I should call or text him?? I dont want to seem desperate because im not!! and because i am older than him. Help I dont understand guys..even at a young age!!!

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Hmmmm. I wonder if it was your comment "call and remind me"....that may have rubbed him the wrong way or made him not feel important....?
I wouldn't call or text him anymore......You will hear from him again...
I agree with the other poster. I know you didn't mean for the reminder to rub him the wrong way, but it may have, especially since he already felt like he was the one initiating contact. I think he has been pretty forward with his feelings, and I think he was 'testing' you when the calls slowed down. If he felt he was the one always initiating contact and then you want to be reminded to do something with him, that would indicate maybe not as much interest as he has in you.
I think he likes you way more than you think, and he took the comment a different way than you meant it. I would call him and clear the air.
Amie
I do think he likes you...but I also think he likes to hang out with his friends....My suggestion is to play it cool...I would let him initiate contact now since you have txt him twice...and let him make the next suggestion about getting together.............then you will be able to gage how he is feeling.
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Hi Hardcorechic,
I was curious how things were going...I think you pretty much have your answer. I would just let it go...You will probably even here from him again in the near future...bc that is what normally happens...hopefully by then you will be over your crush on him and tell him to move on.
I doubt seriously that it's anything YOU did..or didn't do....no matter how much we try to replay everything we said or did...9 times out of 10..it has nothing to do with US.......it's all about him.
HI there
We are sorry you are suffering so.
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