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| Fri, 12-14-2007 - 11:16am |
Hi all!
I need some advice on something.
There’s this guy that I’ve known for several months now. We met at my gym (he’s a personal trainer there). We would chat every time I’d see him there, and we eventually exchanged numbers and began talking on the phone quite infrequently, maybe a few times a month. Anyway, I was never blown away by him, not because he’s unattractive or anything. It’s just that I have a lot of personal issues going on and haven’t really been thinking much about dating anyone.
Anyway, we’ve been talking more frequently, as he calls to check on me to see how I'm doing. I always thought it was a sweet thing to do, but I never thought that he was interested in me, but that he was just being nice.
So, he called me last night and suggested that we get together tonight. I’m game, however, here’s the kicker: he suggested that we hang out AT ONE OF OUR PLACES and rent a movie and make some drinks. Now, I’m open to that; however, not for a first date, you know?

Smile,
Deirdre
It could be laziness/cheapness, or it could be he's just thinking of you as a bud.
I would counter with a suggestion of meeting out somewhere--hopefully once you get together, you'll have a better sense of whether he's interested in dating you or if he wants to be friends.
Sheri
I don't like first dates at someone's house. I would suggest an alternative as in going to see a movie or meeting at a local pub for drinks.
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