Oldjarhead is right: not all men are like the ones you have met. The good news for you is that you sound like you catch on very quickly to these "users," so good for you that you aren't spending years trying to make the unworkable work.
You're still so very young, try not to feel bitter towards men: there are a lot of good ones out there, albeit hard to find sometimes.
And it's a good idea to avoid sex with someone you're out drinking with: judgement is impaired for both parties concerned. Not good. And, any man who pressures a woman for sex is really immature. Really. Don't even consider such a man.
Not all men are this way. Too many
(((((HUGS)))))
Oldjarhead is right: not all men are like the ones you have met. The good news for you is that you sound like you catch on very quickly to these "users," so good for you that you aren't spending years trying to make the unworkable work.
You're still so very young, try not to feel bitter towards men: there are a lot of good ones out there, albeit hard to find sometimes.
And it's a good idea to avoid sex with someone you're out drinking with: judgement is impaired for both parties concerned. Not good. And, any man who pressures a woman for sex is really immature. Really. Don't even consider such a man.
Keep the faith!