So... to finish this... do you think am I just running away?
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The problem with to much therapy is you begin to over think things. (-: First, a lot of people want to live a few states away from mom, kind of normal . .. and sometimes we move just for a change of scenery or to open our horizons.
Nope,
not running. Growing.
"Each problem that I solved became a rule which served afterwards to solve other problems."
"If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance."
I just want to be able to have a mother daughter relationship with her and not a "I must always shoulder whatever emotional crap my mother doles out" relationship.
So... to finish this... do you think am I just running away?
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The problem with to much therapy is you begin to over think things. (-: First, a lot of people want to live a few states away from mom, kind of normal . .. and sometimes we move just for a change of scenery or to open our horizons.
Nope,
not running. Growing.
"Each problem that I solved became a rule which served afterwards to solve other problems."
My two cents: I believe that the issue with the people we have problems with are things we cannot physically run away from.
Personally I think you have a great opportunity here.
I think you're overthinking it.
Wow - thank you all for your replies!
You're never going to escape your mother.
I just want to be able to have a mother daughter relationship with her and not a "I must always shoulder whatever emotional crap my mother doles out" relationship.