You exchange glances...

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Registered: 03-20-2003
You exchange glances...
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Thu, 01-31-2008 - 8:46pm

...and then what??

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Registered: 09-05-2003
Thu, 01-31-2008 - 9:40pm
Did you smile at him? If you flash him a smile, it seems like the ball's in his court and he should have the reassurance to approach you. Of course, you could approach him too-I know plenty of women who are more aggressive than me and, therefore, meet more people.
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Thu, 01-31-2008 - 9:56pm

Actually, I think the first time I was in the middle of licking something off of my lip!

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Registered: 08-16-2005
Fri, 02-01-2008 - 7:10am

After I make eye contact and sustain it I always raise my glass like "cheers" and smile that usually gives them the go ahead to come over and if they want too they usually do.

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Smile,

Deirdre

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Fri, 02-01-2008 - 10:41am

My thought is if you weren't exactly in a good spot for approaching you should have made yourself a bit more available.