Did you smile at him? If you flash him a smile, it seems like the ball's in his court and he should have the reassurance to approach you. Of course, you could approach him too-I know plenty of women who are more aggressive than me and, therefore, meet more people.
After I make eye contact and sustain it I always raise my glass like "cheers" and smile that usually gives them the go ahead to come over and if they want too they usually do.
Actually, I think the first time I was in the middle of licking something off of my lip!
After I make eye contact and sustain it I always raise my glass like "cheers" and smile that usually gives them the go ahead to come over and if they want too they usually do.
Smile,
Deirdre
My thought is if you weren't exactly in a good spot for approaching you should have made yourself a bit more available.