Any tips for ending attraction
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Any tips for ending attraction
| Sun, 02-10-2008 - 10:35pm |
Hello,
I sort of been board hopping around here and this first question I have posted here. Just need a bit of help.
The background on things is that I am good friends with this guy, we have known each other roughly 4 years. He is funny in his own way, very creative, imaginative, has a great job and we can nearly talk about everything.
The problem however is that he is white and I'm black. I don't object to that but my parents would naturally, and in a way he does too, though he was being politicially correct and told me that he would date me in a heartbeat if he could. However

The only thing that really works IMO is not having any contact with the person (or as little as possible) and letting time pass while telling yourself over and over that he isn't interested in you that way (acceptance).
Trying to remain "friends" with the guy while you're getting over attraction is pretty tough.
I agree with Sheri.
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Cursed_Romantic