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Felt rejection today
| Mon, 02-11-2008 - 8:16pm |
Hi
I am wondering how common this is.
Today, in dance class, I was rebuffed by a woman I don't even know.
| Mon, 02-11-2008 - 8:16pm |
Hi
I am wondering how common this is.
Today, in dance class, I was rebuffed by a woman I don't even know.
I think that the mistake that a lot of us make is assuming that other people's actions have anything to do with us.
No, she isn't feeling self-conscious at all...she was willing to share with everyone and when I looked at her, with a sympathetic look, because I understand what it is to have a relationship end (her story was amazing), she looked at everyone except me and once I looked at her, showing interest she tightened the circle.
And, yes, the last few days I noticed other things...so it's definitely me.
I can relate (waving arms)!
Thank you.
Unless you ask her directly, it's really wasted energy trying to figure her out.
HI.
I am positive she isn't feeling insecure.
Edited 2/14/2008 1:32 pm ET by lovinhockey17
Smile,
Deirdre