What do you think of this???

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Registered: 10-14-2001
What do you think of this???
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 8:30pm

I have a silent beef with one of my buddies.

Soliel
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Registered: 02-08-2005
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:27pm
Re-read your last paragraph hun.
5yrssm 
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Registered: 03-21-2007
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 3:49am
Dang, sounds like "J" would need her behind kicked if I was the other woman. I mean my goodness, here it is that poor woman has found out her man is in love with another woman, but she suddenly has to move out, because said YOUNGER woman wants to move in and get started on making babies pronto. I agree that your friend may be fun and compassionate. But seriously she does not think with a full deck when she says such hurtful things. I mean who knows rather or not she can even have kids, herself. Not to mention what if the guy she is with now has a mid-life crisis and goes for someone much younger when she is in her 50's? I think she needs to reprioritize what she is saying and show the poor woman some compassion. Because if she doesn't she definitely won't find any if she is ever on the short end of the stick with the same man.

Cursed_Romantic

 

Cursed_Romantic

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 7:15am

"Not to mention what if the guy she is with now has a mid-life crisis and goes for someone much younger when she is in her 50's?"

Oh, yeah. (as Kramer would say)

Personally, I'd be pretty wary of a guy who could move so easily from one relationship to the next. Hey, and why couldn't HE move out? Your friend sounds rather immature. I wish the two of them all the luck in the world.

--Florida Girl (an "older" woman in her 50s)

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Registered: 10-14-2001
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 12:30pm

Thanks everyone for your thoughts.


Yes, my friend is a bit immature.

Soliel
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Registered: 02-07-2005
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 4:51pm
Sounds like J has an inappropriate sense of entitlement.
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