He'll do ANYTHING, to get me to argue

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Registered: 07-14-2003
He'll do ANYTHING, to get me to argue
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Mon, 02-07-2005 - 3:42pm
Hey everyone! It's been awhile since I posted. My ex has made being a 12 minute father a full time job. He only spends 12 minutes with her when he comes to visit which is every 3 weeks or so, even thought he lives 20 minutes away and works in the same town my dd and I live in. He is such a loser! He has a girlfriend now. He actually brought her with him when he came to see his daughter to give her the gifts he bought her. He didn't let me know he was bringing her. He called and said he would be over in 15 minutes and there they were. All I can say is that they are made for each other! I hope they get married and have lots of children because I know for sure he is still the evil abusive man that he was with me, playing the "good dad" to impress her. I planned a party last week for her first bday and invited him, he didn't show because he said a week's notice wasn't enough time...but when he calls me 15 minutes before he shows up...that's ok. Oddly enough he was still calling my mom, mom in front of his girlfriend. WEIRD? Today he calls me to ask if I got the tax forms in....which I don't.. then he says he is claiming dd this year. I told him to read the divorce decree, it says I get her this year. Then he proceeds to "thank me" for divorcing him, because he met the love of his life. SOOOO CHILDISH! I told him "you're welcome, you guys are perfect for each other". I refuse to let him get the satisfaction of arguing with me. Anyway, he told me he is moving out of state to live with his girlfriend....HALLELUJAH! I was tempted to pack his bags for him. I told him that I thought that was great and wished him luck. Anyone else have an ex that calls to provoke!? It's hard to keep composure but I do!
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Registered: 04-27-2003
Mon, 02-07-2005 - 3:57pm

lol.....

my ex doesn't call.... that's the thing he does to provoke me.... he turns his phone off and doesn't respond to emails ( only about the kids of course ) but he knows he needs to be apart of things... like our daughters surgery... and he just doesn't respond... EXCEPT when it's his weekend.... then everything becomes a MAJOR concern so major, that when I am telling him how to give our daughter her medicine, he walks away in the middle of me talking.... then calls me to ask what to do...LMAO.