How soon is too soon?
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| Mon, 02-14-2005 - 5:01pm |
Im am recently separated and starting the process of getting over him. While it's been hard, I know that it's not something that's going to kill me but rather make me stronger. I actually feel as if Im better off. My future is so bright and positive that him leaving me was probably for the best. The day my divorce is finalized, I'll be so happy.
Although it's only been two months since he left, I've met someone who I really like. Im not trying to get too serious with him, but I don't want to ignore the feelings I have. Everyone has their different opinions about meeting someone new after just coming out of a long term relationship. But I don't want this person to be a "rebound". I really do like him because I think he's a good guy. Not to mention that he's everything my ex was not. Is that a bad thing? It's so natural to compare. Is it too soon to start something new with someone you really like? If so, why should I deny myself of these natural feelings? It was not my intent to immediately go out and find someone to replace my ex. It just sorta happened.........

Keep the "right now" mentality.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~