Men friends

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Registered: 09-14-2004
Men friends
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Sun, 02-27-2005 - 7:23pm
I went out to eat with a friend who is a man last night for the first time in 15 years. It was nothing but a friend but I still feel guilty. My husband moved out 2 months ago because he doesn't love me "in the relationship sense." I don't think I did anything wrong but I still feel anxious. Anyone have experience with this? Thanks!
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Registered: 02-23-2005
In reply to: lola281
Mon, 02-28-2005 - 10:56am
I don't see why you would feel guilty. Sounds like you're just trying to move on with your life. I don't think there is an official timetable on when it is acceptable to go out with others during a separation or after a divorce. Besides, your husband was the one who left you. Don't let that guilt eat you up and I wish you the best....
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: lola281
Mon, 02-28-2005 - 1:56pm

Heck.... it took me a while to get used to "dating" even after my divorce was signed, sealed and delivered!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~