Harrassed

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Registered: 04-27-2003
Harrassed
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Fri, 05-13-2005 - 6:07pm

Hi, new here - recently divorced - my choice and one I am happy about. I am going on with my life, good job, great kid, friends. Ex is not happy - has mental issues and will not leave me alone calls and threatens me about everything I do not being safe for our child and I am this and that. I am not a bad person. I just want to live alittle and don't do anything to hurt myself or anyone else, but to his "crazy mind" I do. Any suggestions? I know if we were married I could have him committed for some of the things he has threatened - like suicide and cutting his arms for the pain I have caused him and threatening to kill me or other bull. He did not get physical when we were married and doesn't try now, just always in my face - parks outside my house and calls me 1000 times?

At the end of my rope!

KK

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2004
In reply to: kimmiekay13
Fri, 05-13-2005 - 6:42pm
It might be time to get the police or your lawyer involved and ask for a retraining order to keep him away from your home (you can exchange the child at a neutral, public location), and keep him from calling except at certain times and only regarding the child. Also, ask your attorney if it is legal to tape record your phone calls and/or conversations. Hopefully you have already started a log book of all this in case you need it one day.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: kimmiekay13
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 12:07pm

Hi there!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~