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| Tue, 05-17-2005 - 12:20pm |
I received a notice to appear from my stbxh atty. I had filed for the divorce 6/04 with no response from him till MArch 05. I didnt know that I could file against him for not answering but now his atty has filed a motion of default against me for not answering his counterpetition. I have to go to court on 5/25, which would have been our 3rd wedding anniversary and 11 yrs together.
My ? is, what does that mean. What can happen to me if I didnt get an answer in by the court date? I am in the process of getting an atty myself, but having a hard time comimng up with the money since I have noe family support. He has had his mommy do all of this for him including paying for it. He has got the best divorce lawyer in town and I am really starting to get scared. Any advice at all would help. Thanks in advance



























Im not 100% sure, but I believe it is only "forcing" you to take action. In my divorce, my ex had a habit of not showing up for court dates. He was given 5 days to respond to my "demands" or else we would just move on without him and I would win by default because he didn't respond.
I am thinking that is the same thing that you got, in essence, just telling you that you have to be there or they will move on without you?
Just my opinion though.
Good luck :)
Hugs,
Angelena
Basically, if you don't respond to his papers, then.... after the state mandated wait period has elapsed, the divorce and settlement can proceed as he has it written.
In other words, when one party is served, they have a predetermined number of days to respond if they don't agree.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Can you get legal aide? In my area it is called Neighborhood legal. If your income is to high for free help then they also have a sliding scale for those who make to much but not enough. Know what I mean?
K:)
I didnt have a lawyer till this week. I had started the process myself last Aug, his lawyer served me in March and then in MAy for the default. I have an appt on Monday morning with the lady I hired. I than go to court on the 25th. It is really taking its toll on me now as the date gets closer. I really dont know that I can handle the final outcome of finally being divorced, as much as it sickens me to know he is living with that bit^& and I am stuck alone. I just want my umstressed life and my family nad it is just never gonna happen
I still cant picture spending the rest of my life with out him, no matter what crap he has said, done or whatever to me in the past. A part of me still loves him and wants to make it work but he is so scared of mommy that he cant stand up to her. I really hate this and wish I didnt have to do this.
I agree with cjkrol.