They are unbelievable - part 2
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| Tue, 05-24-2005 - 12:06pm |
All of your posts were so true. I think about it and laugh because it just reminds me that I have learned from my experiences with my ex. NEVER EVER IGNORE YOUR GUT FEELING.
Well this morning, I got 2 MORE emails from this woman. This is getting crazy now. The 1st one titled "realizing a good thing" it was about how they just have a "living agreement" which is he helps her get on her feet, how they havent been "together" since their two yr old was born, how she messed things up with him and he is a good man and please treat him right and dont make the same mistake she did. She wont email me anymore and doesnt want a response, she is sorry she contacted me. Im like okay. I still dont want him.
Well then there is a 2nd email titled " men playing games" it says how she didnt write the first email and they dont just "live together" and he likes to play games, I should go on with my life and forget about him. It was signed WIFE.
Well, this is becoming something straight out of a psycho movie. So I addressed both emails telling her do not email me anymore, i have nor want anything to do with him! When he came in this morning I had printed the 2 emails she sent to me, I gave them to him and told him to tell his wife to Stop Emailing me I dont want any problems. He couldnt even look at me and didnt say anything.
Crazy, Ugh.

Is he still with you? or are you divorcing? Can you clear up some of this.
I guess I should look back to see if you have already explained all this.
Sorry if this is the case.
maria
Sorry about my reply.
You are right on! Many men are real dogs. Hopefully you'll find a good one
soon.
maria
I don't date much for this same reason. Even on Internet sites they say you
have to be very careful because often times men won't tell you they are married.
Scary!
I have a daughter that works downtown in the Courts and she has been promising
to introduce me to some of the single lawyers down there, but so far, nothing...
I guess all on God's plan, right?
maria
You got that right. You know how when you are looking for something, you never find it, be it a toy for the kids, or that bill or remote or something that you know you saw not that long ago and now that you want it you cant find it. It's not until you start looking for something else that you find what you were previously looking for. Well over that last couple of weeks I've had so many of those moments. Until finally it was like it just hit me that the same applies to love. You know the saying: "when you look, you never find". God it's so true.
So I told myself I would try to stop looking for "love". Ofcourse it's not easy especially when you see all those couples who look so blissfully happy you just want to throw up. But we've all been there and I have faith that I will be there again. I better be (lol). Im just gonna be me, let it come to me. I mean I will flirt if i see a cute guy checking me out or something, im not dead yet.
But like with my ex, he is in his second relationship if you can even call it that but I was jealous as heck until I realized that he isnt truly happy because he is still trying to make my life miserable. Im single now and not as crabby as he is. All of the things I've been looking, hoping, praying for him to do, I've just stopped looking for it. He hasnt done it in over a year, I dont have time to wait anymore. Truly for the first time I can say I dont even care anymore as far as he's concerned. He ran all out of the "get out of jail free" cards with me.
Im finally starting to be happy just as Iam. Single with a lovely little boy who gives me all the love in the world.
We'll be fine
I have three children myself and they are my pride and joy. However, they
are all grown up and on their own. They love me, I know, and they encourage me
to find new love. I sometimes miss the days when they were little and needed me
more. But, time marches on...
I also truly enjoy my independence now, so, it's a trade off.
I agree with you completely. I know that love will find me when it's the right time
with the right man. I have stopped looking also. I do flirt. But you never know if
it will backfire and the girlfriend or wife will show up all of a sudden. Many men
just flirt shamelessly, even if attached.
I have friends who use the internet dating sites and the guys they meet are not that
great, so I prefer to be more selective.
One of these days it will be our turn.
Have a great rest of the day.
maria