He's got a lot of NERVE
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| Fri, 05-27-2005 - 10:15am |
You know my ex just gets more and more nerve. Well it was a glorious 5 days of no contact. Then he called Wed. night to ask how our son's dr. app. went. Im proud to say I handled it wonderfully. I answered his questions, kept it short to the point. Got off the phone no emotional breakdown, YES.
Then last night he called again. I say hello, he says uh, Sherell, can I have Jaylen's swing. I said what, kinda baffled. He said it again. Im like wait a minute u call my house dont even let me know what's going on with his car seat (his truck was repossesed last week car seat inside) you dont even has the decency or respect to ask how he is doing, how im doing and just ask for something after the way you talked to me last week. (We had a big blowup, b/c first he asked me for $300. then got mad and hung up on me when I told him I didnt have it he should askhis girlfriend, then he later accused me of sending the repo people to his house to pick up the truck).
Now he has the nerve to call me asking me to give him our son's baby swing to his new babies that he made with the woman he cheated on me with. Is he crazy. Im furious. More so at the fact that he just will say any old nasty hurtful thing that comes to mind like im dirt or scum then will turn around the next day sometimes and ask me to give him something or do something for him. Why does he do this. He again accused me of forcing him out of his home! ME! He cheated on me. He forced himself out of our home. Why is he still blaming me. How can he still be blaming me. What's wrong with him. I tried to explain to him - hey how do you think this makes me feel, you asking me this. He acted like he was not doing anything wrong. Never mind the fact that in the past i mean even a little as a month ago when he needed help, i was there for him, when is he there for me when ive been down, needed to talk, never. He always says he cant deal with it right now.
So i just distanced myself it became to hard and hurt too much. But he comes to me with this. I told him he couldnt have it!
You know if he would have some respect for me and treat me with a little decency i probably would have given it to him because i geniunely care for him. When the buckle on our son's stroller was defective we took it back to the store and they gave us a new one even the infant car seat as well. Ofcourse our son was too big for it so we just saved it. You know when his twins were born and he was complaining about how one of the car seats were cheap and he needed to buy a better one and had no money for it I told him to take the one we had. It was brand new, he took and did bring it back b/c it didnt fit the stroller which I told him it wouldnt. But the point is I did it out of the kindness of my heart and all he wants to do is take advantage. OOH Im so mad at him. Have any of your ex's ever done something like this.

I agree, you are doing great.... keep it up girl!
Hugs,
Angelena