stupid is as stupid does

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Registered: 12-31-2004
stupid is as stupid does
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Fri, 05-27-2005 - 7:37pm

Hello everyone,

I did the worst thing that you can do after a divorce. I immediately hooked up with another man. What a mistake. He traveled all the time. We spent most of the time in bed.
Then things started getting a little serious and he would push forward then pull back. He was constantly talking about how he got burned from his ex's and how manipulative this woman or that woman was. Anyway, we finally got into it last night. He wanted my kids and I to move to CA with him (I have a house and a pool here) but not get married. It's not that I wnat to get married but I found it very insulting. Anyway. I broke up with him over it. He sent me this really nasty email about how screwed up I was. Anyway, now on top of everything else I am in alot of pain because I really cared about him. What a dope I am.

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Sat, 05-28-2005 - 10:01am

Aw honey... these things happen. All we can do is learn.


I know it sucks.... remember, everything happens for a reason.


Don't ever let anyone tell you "how you are".... it is your choice to believe them but only you KNOW you.


Hugs,


Angelena

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Sat, 05-28-2005 - 2:17pm

hugs..... honey - we all make mistakes. the point is to learn from them and move on. don't let him get you down. you know what you want out of life, so that's what you need to go after.


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 05-28-2005 - 8:59pm

Live and learn.... just another stepping stone of life.


Hang in there!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

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