He is the one that had the A. Why do I feel like the evil one if I push for this divorce? There is a lot more to it than just the A. I was leaning toward sticking it thru for the kids. Then he took my 11 yr old to lunch with him and the OW. My 11 yr old knows about the affair that was supposedly over. He didn't think anything was wrong with having my kid sit there at the time. What a disrespect. What a horrible position to put my daughter in. He and the OW work together. I am not interested in rebuilding. He acts like nothing is wrtong of course. The kids adore him. I love how the men turn it around. They barely could get his attention before. The only good thing that came out of this A is the kids get more attention than ever. Why do I feel like the bad one that is going to break up the family? My kids are very close with him. I am afraid they will hate me. Other than the kids, I have no other reservations. I feel good about it until the 4 of us are together. Then I feel like I will be taking their Daddy away.
I regret a lot of things.... I regret the divorce because when I filed after he left me he wouldn't talk to me and our "relationship" has gone downhill since then.
I regret that I wasn't mature enough when we got married to see that I was marrying him for the wrong reasons. I regret that because of that, I hurt him by asking for the divorce. I still care about him and always will, and he didn't deserve that. But I had to leave.
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No.... Even though it was difficult while it was happening, in the hindsight, even EX seems to be on board with me that things are way better now.
No regrets!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
There is a lot more to it than just the A. I was leaning toward sticking it thru for the kids. Then he took my 11 yr old to lunch with him and the OW. My 11 yr old knows about the affair that was supposedly over. He didn't think anything was wrong with having my kid sit there at the time. What a disrespect. What a horrible position to put my daughter in.
He and the OW work together.
I am not interested in rebuilding.
He acts like nothing is wrtong of course. The kids adore him. I love how the men turn it around. They barely could get his attention before. The only good thing that came out of this A is the kids get more attention than ever.
Why do I feel like the bad one that is going to break up the family? My kids are very close with him. I am afraid they will hate me.
Other than the kids, I have no other reservations. I feel good about it until the 4 of us are together. Then I feel like I will be taking their Daddy away.
REGRETS?...YES!!!
I regret a lot of things.... I regret the divorce because when I filed after he left me he wouldn't talk to me and our "relationship" has gone downhill since then.
Sometimes. I regret that he didn't want the marriage enough to work on it.
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