Regrets?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2005
Regrets?
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Thu, 06-02-2005 - 8:55pm
Does anyone here regret their decision to divorce?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2003
In reply to: betrayed131
Thu, 06-02-2005 - 9:23pm
No.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: betrayed131
Thu, 06-02-2005 - 9:37pm
Lord NO! R~
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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2005
In reply to: betrayed131
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 1:14am
Not one bit.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: betrayed131
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:41am

No.... Even though it was difficult while it was happening, in the hindsight, even EX seems to be on board with me that things are way better now.


No regrets!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2005
In reply to: betrayed131
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 5:44am
He is the one that had the A. Why do I feel like the evil one if I push for this divorce?
There is a lot more to it than just the A. I was leaning toward sticking it thru for the kids. Then he took my 11 yr old to lunch with him and the OW. My 11 yr old knows about the affair that was supposedly over. He didn't think anything was wrong with having my kid sit there at the time. What a disrespect. What a horrible position to put my daughter in.
He and the OW work together.
I am not interested in rebuilding.
He acts like nothing is wrtong of course. The kids adore him. I love how the men turn it around. They barely could get his attention before. The only good thing that came out of this A is the kids get more attention than ever.
Why do I feel like the bad one that is going to break up the family? My kids are very close with him. I am afraid they will hate me.
Other than the kids, I have no other reservations. I feel good about it until the 4 of us are together. Then I feel like I will be taking their Daddy away.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2004
In reply to: betrayed131
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 7:53am

REGRETS?...YES!!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2005
In reply to: betrayed131
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 8:11am

I regret a lot of things.... I regret the divorce because when I filed after he left me he wouldn't talk to me and our "relationship" has gone downhill since then.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
In reply to: betrayed131
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 10:28am

Sometimes. I regret that he didn't want the marriage enough to work on it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2003
In reply to: betrayed131
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 11:21am
I regret that I wasn't mature enough when we got married to see that I was marrying him for the wrong reasons. I regret that because of that, I hurt him by asking for the divorce. I still care about him and always will, and he didn't deserve that. But I had to leave.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: betrayed131
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 11:32am
NO!

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