ABout to be SICK
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ABout to be SICK
| Wed, 08-24-2005 - 1:09pm |
Today was the day, he filed this morning, called work told my step dad to tell me I would be served soon. Now, I'm sick to my stomach, I just saw him and his gf following him through town, that's even worse. I think I'm going to throw up. I just want to ball my eyes out and keep asking Why me. I already know the answer, he didn't want this marriage and I have to except that and move on, but I can't it is so hard. I need nerve meds bad. How do I get over this sick feeling? I feel like my world has crashed in on me and I'm not sure how to handle it. Prayers please and alot of positive thoughts. Thanks.
Stacy

First off: Take a few deep breaths. I know exactly how you are feeling. IT WILL BE OKAY. You will get through this. I know right now it seems IMPOSSIBLE but it ISNT. The men always seem to be able to move on right away and it leaves us wondering how, why and so many other things. Do alot of reading. My favorite author is Iyanla Vanzant. Her books helped me through my darkest hours and this web site. Lord knows helped me tremendously and still does. It's been a yr and a half for me and I still miss him sometimes. Its normal and okay. I just dont act on it anymore. But I still have the urges at times and I just do other things or remember the hell he put me through. It gets me by.
Honey you are not alone at all. We are here for you.
Hugs, Brenda
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
I know exactly the feeling you are describing. I have been divorced completely for 6 months and I still get that panicky, throwing up, tunnel vision, anxious, i want to die feeling every once in a while. For the weirdest reasons. I lost 30# after we separated and became a hysterical mess resulting in my girlfriend taking me to the doctor for medical help - what I fondly call my "happy pills." While I am not an advocate for drugs (I sue drug companies for bad drugs), in this situation, I think they may have saved me from losing my job and my will to live.
It will get better. Maybe you won't notice it all at once but it will happen. It's hard not to dwell on what I should or could have done to make it "work" -- that won't get you anywhere right now. Things might seem impossible but you will find that, if you just ask, your friends and family will be there for you in whatever way you need.
Many hugs!!!!