STBX was reprimanded by his atty i think

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Registered: 03-15-2004
STBX was reprimanded by his atty i think
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Thu, 08-25-2005 - 11:21pm

We have actually had some decent exchanges & pick-up drops-off for visitation the past week. Of course, he likely conveniently forgot all the trauma he caused the past weeks which led me to sending my atty & the GAL the letter about his "disparaging remarks about me in front of & to our daughter". So, my phone rings tonite & he is LIVID. Screaming at me "WTF!?! We takes 2 steps forward & 1 step back! What is this LETTER from yoru attorney!?! This is war, once again! You can NEVER be happy until you ruin my life, can you?" he began screaming so i hung up & turned my phone off.


I knew he was at a meeting later, & i HAD to get this out.

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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 9:26am
Good job standing up for yourself. I am so proud. Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 9:41am
Hugs, Rebecca. What Averey said about the pennies really tugged at my heartstrings. I think he's still trying to play the control game with you, but you may have scored a few points this time. I doubt he actually thinks he was wrong or that he is hurting Averey, but it may have gotten through to him that saying those things to her isn't accomplishing hurting you and instead is making HIM look bad in the eyes of the GAL, his lawyer, the judge, etc. And he wants everyone to think he's the wonderful guy who's the victim here, so I hope he'll stop it to keep up appearances.
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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 4:42pm

Good!.... you did a great job validating that it's HIS actions and HIS choices that require you to place consequences.... and that he's only hurting Averey.... NOT you!


Rah!.... You GO Girl!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

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Registered: 11-02-2004
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 6:43pm

Kudos to you for not taking any of his crap!

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