Ladies~Do you think most Ex's~~~~
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Ladies~Do you think most Ex's~~~~
| Thu, 09-01-2005 - 12:21pm |
miss us and think about us? .. Especially if there not the ones that really want the divorce and the sexual chemistry was very intense right up to the end. And is afraid they'll never get that connection again with someone like that.
And there in there 50's,and are not one to date alot
Has any one else ever wondered that.
I know you girls are gonna think i'm dwelling on things, but talking like this is very theraputic for me.

Hugs, Brenda
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Well I think I'll be able to get over my Ex quicker, probably than most, because I wasn't with him very long and also because of all what he has done to me...
But~I do know that about 5 weeks ago he wrote me a letter and told me that he thinks of me EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY~~but then 2 weeks later he wants us to sign divorce papers, because his time frame isn't going according to HIS plan...He has some VERY serious issues..LOL
My divorce has been final for 8 months now. My xh is a very controlling and abusive person, but he could also be very charming when he wanted to.
So yes, I still think about him alot but mostly I think "oh my god if he knew about this or that he would be furious". It takes a long time to heal the wounds of 23 years. But I'm doing it a day at a time.
But I also think about him and hope to god he is miserable without me and the kids, cause he never appreciated how great we all were and what we meant to him as family.
I think it is perfectly normal to think about him and then of course move on. I consider it therapy to think about him and then know that I don't have to answer to him anymore!
Hang in there, it's going to get better.
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I'm sure!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~