Why am I feeling like the~

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-27-2002
Why am I feeling like the~
5
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 10:00am

loser here, when in reality he is....

Your right about what you say~~~I guess I feel soooooooo duped, and he sucked me right in and I fell in love with a man that NEVER exsisted..The things that he did to my boys and myself are surmountable: If feel he is a Sociopath, they have no concious, no guilt and no remorse for anything they do. and they are usually a pathelogical lair..and he is all of that.

Lying, stealing, hiding things, locking doors, cheating, calling us names and taking our dog. I could go on and on with so many cruel things that he did its unbelieveable. Taking my dog was the most evil thing he could of done. And this man sits in church....I guess just taking up space...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 2:03pm

heymissy13...

It's sounds (to Pianoguy) that you've been TO HELL AND BACK several times?

But the good news is...you've recognized the man for the scumbag that he was...and you've learned from the experience. Believe it or not...YOU'RE GONNA MAKE IT PAST THIS!

While it's impossible to "undo the damage that has been done"...you've got friends, family members and people on this board who SUPPORT you! Take advantage of this.

In the meantime, give yourself permission to "visit a local animal shelter" and find a replacement for the dog. Not only will you (and your sons) feel terrific...but you'll be rescuing a pet from the possibility of extinction!

Best wishes and warm thoughts,

Pianoguy

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2005
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 2:35pm

Gosh, its no wonder he hasn't burst into flames upon entering the church. I can understand your pain.

After I left, I moved back home with my parents until I could find an apartment. I asked my ex to hold on to my cats until I found someplace to take them as my parents already had too many pets. Within two months I was moving into my new apartment with my children and told him that I was ready to get the cats. He told me that he didn't have them anymore, that he drove them up the road and opened the door and let them out. I was devastated. I had them before I even had children.

Your ex will get his comeupance, just as mine will. I truly believe what goes around comes around.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-17-2004
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 2:46pm
Instead of focusing all your thoughts on him, why not use this opportunity to focus on yourself?
Sanguine
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Sat, 09-03-2005 - 12:09am
That is HORRID!

Photobucket

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2005
Sat, 09-03-2005 - 10:43pm
Thank you Rich. It never ceases to amaze me what some people will do to people they once claimed to love.