She answered the phone

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Registered: 03-26-2003
She answered the phone
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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 12:36pm
Hello All,
I just needed to vent. I called my ex this morning to tell him about his son's doc appt yesterday. He will have to go into surgery for a hernia. Anyway, his gf answered his phone, I was shocked. She said that he forgot it today and asked if I wanted to leave him a msg. I cant believe it, how dare she answer his phone. When I was married to him I was never allowed to answer the phone and now look at her. She practically is doing everything for him. Maybe thats what he wanted someone to be his slave and well I was not one to do that. Im so upset, it was like she was gloating, makes me want to never ever call his phone again. Anyway, I just wanted to vent. I know me being upset means that I am not over him and I cannot understand why I still fell this way when this man has been nothing but horrible to me. Gosh why can I not let this go. How long before I start to live my life again.
Thanks for listening.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 09-11-2005 - 10:24pm

Hummm.... she said that he forgot his phone.... I wonder if he minded that she answered it?


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 09-12-2005 - 12:19am

If that sort of thing upsets you, is there any way you can contact him otherwise - like his own cell phone, or via email? Don't beat yourself up - it must have been shocking & upsetting to hear her voice on his phone.


You will live your life again - eveyone has a differnt timeline. (((hugs)))

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Registered: 07-09-2005
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 1:27am

Maybe email is the best way to go.

Gives you a way to communicate without your emotions coming into play.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 8:35am

Welcome to the board mrsblowmeaway!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 09-02-2004
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 11:47am

Email, definitely is the way to go with difficult communications. Time to think and edit words if necessary, plus a written record for court, if needed.

Problem with that is that my ex has this passive aggressive tendency to NOT answer my emailed questions about kidstuff. Infuriates me! Necessitates a phone call.