I am FURIOUS!! Just had to get this out

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Registered: 06-17-2004
I am FURIOUS!! Just had to get this out
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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 3:56pm
I CANNOT BELIEVE THAT JACKASS SORRY EXCUSE FOR A FATHER!!!!!!!!!!!! Once again, Mark has lied to me. I asked him if
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Registered: 03-06-2005
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 5:28pm

I understand... all too well.


I guess getting mad and reacting is exactly what they want. Atleast that is what it seems to me. I don't get mad anymore when he cancels... he used to lie to me and tell me he was "working" and that I should basically kiss his feet because he was working to support ME and that if he didn't work I would not be able to live blah blah blah... I found out later he was out galavanting with OW.


sheesh..... it sucks, I know....


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Registered: 07-14-2003
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 5:39pm

Document. When the time comes, tell the court he's a relational deadbeat and set things up so he has as little time with them as possible. He won't use it.

If someday he comes around and starts taking time with them you can re-evaluate.

It's strange, we can take almost anything they do to us, but when they hurt the kids, mama bear comes roaring! Huge hugs.

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Registered: 06-17-2004
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 9:02pm

>>he used to lie to me and tell me he was "working" and that I should basically kiss his feet because he was working to support ME and that if he didn't work I would not be able to live blah blah blah... I found out later he was out galavanting with OW.<<


That is EXACTLY what goes on with us. One time, he was getting the boys, jand he just walked in and plopped down in my living room and asked me to make him some dinner!!!!! I looked at him like he was crazy and said, "Um, hell no!" and he said, "Well, I buy all of the food here anyway, I might as well get some of it." When I asked him not to just walk in, but to know first, he said, "Why should I? I pay the rent." HARDLY!!! Please.....I'd give up what little child support he pays in a second if it meant he'd be a decent father. I just wish he would sign his parental rights over to me and move far, far away.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sat, 09-10-2005 - 3:55am

You are SO right. He IS a pathetic excuse for a father & the person who said they can do what they want to US is fine (well, not REALLY, but we know what she meant) - but screw with my kid & i will kill you. & yes, it hurts SO much to see them hurting. our babies.


The best i can say is ABSOLUTELY NEVER EVER tell them about a visit till he is on yoru doorstep. xxoo

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Registered: 09-17-2004
Sat, 09-10-2005 - 8:09am
You're not alone.
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