I wish I would have never called him
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| Tue, 09-13-2005 - 4:20pm |
My ex called a little while ago asking me about the information for the surgery tomorrow. We have to be there at 6am. So I tell him and he says to call him tomorrow with the room # and he will come to see him. I said okay and then politely said can you come by yourself tomorrow please. He was like who I come there with isnt your concern. So I said no I mean when you come to his room, please come by yourself. He was like (with an attitude) who I come with doesnt concern you. I said look I dont want to argue, im asking you, I dont care who you come to the hospital with, I mean when you come to the room, I wanted it to be clear that I meant the baby's room. Then he says well if you are that concerned when Im on my way I will call you and you can leave his room. WHAT THE F#^K! He hasnt seen him for over 3 months and I do the right thing in calling him and he cant even give me the respect of not coming to our son's room without one of his
bi#$%#s who none of whom have ever given me any respect! I didnt yell or scream or anything as i am still at work but I just said, You mean you are actually considering bringing someone to his room? He said yes. I just hung up the phone.
My god, why is he like this? I did the right thing by telling him. Why is he so nasty. I wish to God I would have never told him anything. What's wrong with this man. Now he'll probabyly for sure come there tomorrow with someone just to spite me. Im not calling him to tell him the room #. Im gonna tell the hospital not to give out any information about my son, can I do that.
If they cant do that, can I demand that anyone other than the baby's parents be banned from the room?
Oh God, I cant believe this

The more you let him know that it bothers you, the more he is going to do it. Take the high road. No matter what you feel like at the time that you are dealing with him whether by telephone or in person, never let him know that he got to you. I swear my favorite saying in the whole world is from a deodorant commercial. "Never let them see you sweat".
Eventually, they will give up trying. Suck it in hon. He is a toad, but you don't have to stoop to his level. Just remember that she has your sloppy seconds!
You ABSOLUTELY have the option to say who does & who doesnt go into his room or visits. You have full sole custody, right?
God Bless.