There has been an unexpected development
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There has been an unexpected development
| Tue, 03-14-2006 - 3:02pm |
I got a phone call on Thursday night from my stbx. He called at 9 and my first reaction was what the 'f' do you want. I didn't say that, but after him spending 17 years with me, he knew from the tone of my voice that that's what I meant. The first thing he said to me was 'I'm sorry'. I was silent. I then aksed where the hell was this coming from and he said he was sorry for being 'a bit of a bastard for these last few months'. I accepted and we then proceeded to talk over the phone for 3 hours. 2 hours were exclusively about our son. He then asked me if I needed anymore help with my car and I said 'yes - I need a tune up as well' He did the tune-up on Saturday. He also invited me to a concert on April 1st (and no- it's no joke). So - needless to say, that conversation we had the other night was the longest and best we've had in 6 months. We all (me, my son and his father) went out to lunch as well on Saturday and Sunday. Had a real good weekend. So - this is my development. CRAZY. Pam
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| Tue, 03-14-2006 - 3:31pm |
Wow, so maybe there is hope for some of us. LOL. So what's the deal is there some hope of a reconciliation? How old is your son?
| Wed, 03-15-2006 - 9:40am |
Hey luv. I don't know about a reconcilliation, but our son is 9 (will be 10 in May). We have separated before and always got back together - but this time is very different. I moved to a whole other state (a border state to him, but still much further away) and we had the worst fight of all time for us when we separated 6 months ago. So - I'm not sure. I still do love him very, very much but have been very angry with him and I have made some mistakes since our breakup and may be paying for them as I speak. I will know more tomorrow. But I guess I will just take it one day at a time and keep on taking care of my son and myself. I don't have a good feeling about us getting back together. But thanks for the response. I will keep you updated. Take care. Pam
| Wed, 03-15-2006 - 9:46am |
Good luck. I hope everything works out in your favor.
