Did your marriage end because of infi...
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| Fri, 03-17-2006 - 9:25am |
Did your marriage end because of infidelity?
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Hey debbie,
We werent legally married, just living together but I behaved as a wife in every sense of the word. As a matter of fact today is the two year anniversary. Hell I even saw the OW and her twins. So there is just stuff going on all over today.
Melanie
See me saying "WOW" as I shake my head in disbelief that "he did what?"
My EX said that he kept pushing the infidelity line out farther and farther because he was trying to get a reaction from me... he wanted to to get mad, scream, cry, throw things at him, etc.... because "that would prove that you love me."
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Yup - that's exactly what he did! He told me I was heartless and cruel because I was so upset about him asking another woman out that I hadn't acknowledged his broken heart! He wanted me to comfort him. In his defense (which is very thin...) he is mentally ill, this was just more of the insanity.
Melanie
To be honest, infidelity was the symptom, not the cause, of my martial problems. It sounds cliche but it's true.
Actually I think it's a line from "When Harry Met Sally"--"well, that symptom is f!@#ing my wife."
Mine did the same thing (pushing the infidelity boundaries) but for a different reason. He did it knowing I would hit a breaking point and find the strength to end the marriage. . .strength he, himself, didn't have.
The first incident was a one night stand, then there was a 2-3 week affair while he was at a military school in Georgia (and I was home with 3 kids including a newborn), the final straw was falling in love with a 26 year old National Guard member while serving in Iraq and having HER meet him upon his return to the states instead of having the kids meet him.