has anyone had their spouse regret ....

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has anyone had their spouse regret ....
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Fri, 04-07-2006 - 11:36pm
leaving and want to reconcile? I do not want a divorce. I love my husband and hope he changes his mind....before it's too late...
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Sat, 04-08-2006 - 2:40am

Five percent of divorced couples eventually reconcile.

It's possible -- but you might like to work on making yourself happy and fulfilled as your priority. If it's meant to be, he'll come around. If not, you'll at least be happy.

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 10:20am
Lisa, but STBX and I had discussed getting a divorce several months before I filed. He was adamant that he also wanted a divorce. Shortly after I filed, he did come back, telling me it was a mistake. I did even make the mistake of spending a couple of days with him to see how I felt. But in my heart, the marriage was over. I realized I could not be with him. That's my experience, but yours could certainly be different.




What lies behind us and lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 11:00am
Hey Lisa, I know how you feel. I want my ex to come home too. Take care of yourself. I hope we are part of the 5%. Hugs, Brenda


Edited 4/8/2006 11:01 am ET by mebrenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Registered: 03-21-2006
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 4:42pm
Hi Lisa,
You already know how I feel. You and I are in the exact same boat!
Thinking of you and wishing you a peaceful weekend~
Hugs to you~
PS call when you get a chance


Edited 4/8/2006 9:28 pm ET by jnsmom27
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Sat, 04-08-2006 - 10:32pm

First off.... let me say.... *I* was the one that wanted the divorce... and HECK YEAH he regretted it and wanted to reconcile.... "I'll change..... I promise..."


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~