I think the GF is finally gone.....

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Registered: 02-23-2005
I think the GF is finally gone.....
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 11:06pm

Well ex and GF have been fighting alot. They have a 4 mo son together that my dd's love to death. Ex has been getting along great with me for quite a while now and his GF didn't like that. But that is the least of their problems. About 2 weeks ago I got a call at work from my mother. She has a police/fire scanner.(she belong to the ladies auxilery for the fire dep.) She had heard a call come it that ex abducted his gf's son. She thought I should call ex and let him know. (She also knows that ex's GF has been acting weird lately)

So I called ex and told him. He knew she called but didn't know she said he abducted the baby.I told him to call the police and let them know what he was doing. Apparently gf was going to the next state to take her other son for a driver exam and was going to take the baby with her. That was not the problem, she was refusing to feed the baby until she got there.(It's an hour and a hald drive) Ex was warming the bottle when she grabbed it out of the microwave and told him there wasn't time the baby could wait. This pissed of the ex so he put the baby in his car seat and left with him. This is one incident.

Ex's gf has been living with him for a year and a half without paying any bills rent, utilities or otherwise. When they moved to the new house she agreeded to pay half of everything. BTW she has been working full time while ex takes care of the baby.He is self-employed. Ex had already sent in the gas bill and needed her half to cover his check. She kept refusing to write it until he said he wouldn't leave her alone about the issue until she did. So she wrote the check and decided she was leaving to go back with her family in the other state. Mind you this was at 3 am and it was his night to have our girls. Ex was attempting to help her get the baby's things and she thought he was trying to stop her. With the baby in her arms she procededs to shove a 3/4 inch piecs of plywood into ex cutting him on his hand. Then she procedes to call the police again. This time MY kids were there for all of her ranting. My oldest was calling out for me. Ex is assuring me this will never happen again. He changed the locks on her and will only let the baby come back. My girls are so upset that they don't get to see their baby brother now. They are also afraid for him because of how she was acting.

I certainly hope they never have to deal with this again.Ex already knows that if she comes back the girls will not be staying with him. To all who read this far thank you. I just really needed another outlet.

Thanks again,
K:)

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 04-13-2006 - 11:58pm

Vent away any time.... golly gheez.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Fri, 04-14-2006 - 9:00am
Holy COW! What a mess your ex got himself into. Ad your poor kids! I know it's hard when something like that goes on in their lives and you aren't there to protect them. Hopefully, your girls will get to see the baby again soon. I'm sorry they had to endure all of this!




What lies behind us and lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us. - Ralph Waldo Emerson